New hostess in linked model

Hello! I need to know if it is possible to change automatically with dynamo the host of a family for a new one (both hosts are in a link). The specific problem is: in my work model (mep) I have linked an architecture model (arq) with a 20 cm wall to which I have placed a family based on the face of a luminaire. In architecture they make me a new interior wall (a wall with a paint finish) of 2cm that is aligned with the 20cm one. When reloading the arq link in my mep work model, the new wall appears, but my luminaire is hidden, so I have to select as new to receive the new created wall. Is there a way to automatically do this process?

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